Riyaz Aluher in An Email Circular To Friends posted by Lorenz Pereira of Melbourne
On this sacred day of Vesak, we remember the peaceful teachings of the Gautama Buddha and reflect on how we can bring more calm and understanding into our lives. There is a simple and beautiful story.
A young monk once went to the Buddha with a troubled mind. He said, “Master, people insult me, misunderstand me, and treat me unfairly. How should I respond?”
The Buddha looked at him calmly and asked, “If someone offers you a gift, and you do not accept it, who does the gift belong to?”
The monk replied, “It belongs to the one who offered it.”
The Buddha gently smiled and said, “In the same way, if someone gives you anger or hatred, and you do not accept it, it stays with them.”
The monk became quiet. He understood the meaning. From that day, he chose peace — not because the world changed, but because he changed.
This story gives us a very important lesson. We do not have to carry the negativity that others give us. When someone speaks harshly or acts badly, we have a choice. We can react and suffer, or we can stay calm and let it pass.
Peace begins when we decide not to accept what hurts our mind.
As a Muslim, I believe this message is true in all religions. Every faith teaches us patience, kindness, and self-control. Choosing peace over anger is a strength, not a weakness.
On this Vesak Day, let us try to practise this in our daily lives. Let us stay calm, think before we react, and choose peace in every situation.
May this Vesak Day bring peace, understanding, and harmony to all.
